[Beautiful Heart]

Beautiful heart~thank you for sharing that!
31andcounting

You are so welcome 31! 

[Trustandlove]

BH, thank you for that; the one slightly confusing thing is that we often use "S" here to mean son -- so at first I was confused when you said your S was a tough girl!

I'm glad things are good for them!

[toughtimes]

Hi bh it's a great story, very heart warming. It was a short time wasn't it? 1.5 years seems quick compared to many stories here. My brother had a mlc and was a clinging boomerang, three kids and my sil carried on just as we say here. I thought she was crazy at the time, letting her h come home every week but after four years he moved back in full time, gave up his flat and they are happy family again. Still ups and down but I think some growing up was done. My brother drank a lot and lived high energy replay antics.

[FindingJoJo]

Thank you BH and toughtimes both stories are great and it helps to understand the actions of someone who lived it and survived. 

[Beautiful Heart]

BH, thank you for that; the one slightly confusing thing is that we often use "S" here to mean son -- so at first I was confused when you said your S was a tough girl!

I'm glad things are good for them!

LOL...sorry about that...I was using S for sister.  Thank you T&L 

[Beautiful Heart]

Hi bh it's a great story, very heart warming. It was a short time wasn't it? 1.5 years seems quick compared to many stories here. My brother had a mlc and was a clinging boomerang, three kids and my sil carried on just as we say here. I thought she was crazy at the time, letting her h come home every week but after four years he moved back in full time, gave up his flat and they are happy family again. Still ups and down but I think some growing up was done. My brother drank a lot and lived high energy replay antics.

Hi TT,
Yes, 1.5 yrs is a very short time time compared to the stories here. He was Very high energy, moved from one woman to the next. I think the last straw is when he got into an accident and nearly died. He had surgery and nearly lost his foot, he did lose 2 toes. He does not remember anything about the accident. My sister took him in to care for him, I think this is when he came home for good. The lack of toes is the grim reminder of his wild ride through MLC!

I'm so happy to hear your brother is back home with his family!!! Another happy ending!

[Beautiful Heart]

Thank you BH and toughtimes both stories are great and it helps to understand the actions of someone who lived it and survived.

You are welcome JoJo 

[Beautiful Heart]

TT,

I believe your brother is right, I really think they hate themselves, why else would they be so miserable?
I would love to read your your stories, I'm not sure is I have read them yet. Thanks TT

XXX
BH

[Disneyme]

I am so confused. Unconditional love like what. I don't even speak to h. Then I hear men say they realized when they knew they had lost the wife. I guess from NC and detachment. I feel like I had tried everything, maybe at wrong times who knows. right now I feel hurt but really don't feel the wanting him back. I am thinking moving on looks good don't know how I can get over any of this not that he ever asked. Posting newest update on my thread.

[FindingJoJo]

I am so confused. Unconditional love like what. I don't even speak to h. Then I hear men say they realized when they knew they had lost the wife. I guess from NC and detachment. I feel like I had tried everything, maybe at wrong times who knows. right now I feel hurt but really don't feel the wanting him back. I am thinking moving on looks good don't know how I can get over any of this not that he ever asked. Posting newest update on my thread.

I think that the only way you can get over any of this is to forgive and let go of the anger.  For me I have been very conscious that this isn't the person I knew and I really don't need to punish him he is living a nightmare.  All I can do is be aware of my actions, my behaviors and be the best I can be.