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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Christmas presents for MLCers - Yes or No?
#70: December 18, 2013, 01:59:25 PM
My Christmas present paid off (I prayed about it a lot before I ordered it - it felt the right thing to do). H phoned me to thank me for it and apologised for not getting me anything as 'he wasn't sure if he should'. This is the first time he has phoned me since BD. He even asked how I was (really good). He sounded miserable and said he was 'doing alright'.
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ok.  we have a swift kick to the groin above the mantel.  Opposite wall: "Find Your Kid in this Class Picture"

Stocking holds one (1) fresh spine, with two (2) balls in the toe.

among the tree ornaments, you will find a bag of cat poop, a skunk*, surfer nutcracker, running shoe, coal, Mr. JD's Visa, mirror, and truth serum.
under the tree is a miner's lamp to navigate the tunnel, a nice bag of weed, and other things that should be fairly evident.
*oops my skunk disappeared.  my photo program crashed 3 times during the process. sorry about that!

also, I meant to include some Axe Body Spray and some video games -
There may have to be some additions between now and Christmas morn!
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« Last Edit: December 18, 2013, 04:04:39 PM by Riddle »

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ok.  we have a swift kick to the groin above the mantel.  Opposite wall: "Find Your Kid in this Class Picture"

Stocking holds one (1) fresh spine, with two (2) balls in the toe.

among the tree ornaments, you will find a bag of cat poop, a skunk*, surfer nutcracker, running shoe, coal, Mr. JD's Visa, mirror, and truth serum.
The rest should be fairly evident.
*oops my skunk disappeared.  my photo program crashed 3 times during the process. sorry about that!

Riddle, you legend! That is sòoooooooo good! ;D
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 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Thanks for the "cat poop' Riddle!! You are TOOOOOO much!!!
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Love it Riddle  ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Christmas presents for MLCers - Yes or No?
#75: December 18, 2013, 04:41:59 PM
No, nothing. Last year I received a small pity present. I still don't have his address and my last text just saying hi went unanswered. It had been a couple months NC. Wasn't bothered but definitely answered the question about a present.
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That's pretty awesome Riddle!

I can tell by reading this just how different my MLCer and my case is.
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BAHAHAHAHAHA!!  Riddle!!  That is awesome!!   ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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for my w a rich, loving, caring, great with other men's children, sensitive, artistic, man of the highest character who is looking for a dysfunctional Divorced woman of 45 with 4 kids (2 under 7 yrs) to make all of her dreams come true. Did I say rich? ;D
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Re: Christmas presents for MLCers - Yes or No?
#79: December 19, 2013, 11:34:33 AM
I will probably give the wife a coffee card for her favorite place and some bath salts/candles stuff like that.

I am guessing by her actions my w is already taking bath salts
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