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#10: March 30, 2014, 12:04:03 PM
Those comments were certainly designed to hurt me, continue the message that I'm inadequate, and justify his own behavior. They didn't, actually. I just shook my head and continued on with the conversation as though he didn't say something so incongruous. I recognized them for what they were.

Although there is a teeny part of me that wouldn't mind randomly asking some day if size counts where adult toys are concerned. I would so love to see his reaction to that! ;)
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That's was some f*cked up sh!t! I don't ever have to do that again!

Why are you holding on to that? How is it serving you?

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Re: MLC script V
#11: March 30, 2014, 12:56:39 PM
Wow! Well done for carrying on the conversation. I wish I'd read how to not defend/reason/react six months ago. I've not seen any monstering since using the techniques learnt here etc. The worst I get is 'it's private' if I get too close to the truth (about has he seen a counsellor/when will he admit to OW). I've even learnt to leave that alone recently.
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Re: MLC script V
#12: March 30, 2014, 06:47:24 PM
Quote from: Medusa on March 30, 2014, 06:37:45 AM



I think you should sleep with other people, but they can't have a Pen!$ bigger than mine.


Oh my goodness, this is hilarious. I can't stop laughing.
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Re: MLC script V
#13: March 30, 2014, 06:57:37 PM
Quote from: long journey on March 30, 2014, 06:47:24 PM
Quote from: Medusa on March 30, 2014, 06:37:45 AM



I think you should sleep with other people, but they can't have a Pen!$ bigger than mine.


Oh my goodness, this is hilarious. I can't stop laughing.
I'm telling you, if anybody's husband says something like this just ask him, "Well who on earth would I find, then? ;D ;D ;D
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Re: MLC script V
#14: March 30, 2014, 07:48:01 PM
Quote from: bipolared on March 30, 2014, 06:57:37 PM
Quote from: long journey on March 30, 2014, 06:47:24 PM
Quote from: Medusa on March 30, 2014, 06:37:45 AM



I think you should sleep with other people, but they can't have a Pen!$ bigger than mine.


Oh my goodness, this is hilarious. I can't stop laughing.
I'm telling you, if anybody's husband says something like this just ask him, "Well who on earth would I find, then? ;D ;D ;D

Did I win the prize for the most ridiculous MLC statement ever made? 8) I am so glad others find the hilarity in the comment. How I kept from laughing at him is beyond me except the entire conversation was completely bizarre.

I love your suggestion, BP! Truly wish I had thought of it at the time. Its so unfortunate that when we are in the thick of these things, we don't think of these fantastic responses! At least, I don't!
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Re: MLC script V
#15: March 30, 2014, 08:05:19 PM
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I'm telling you, if anybody's husband says something like this just ask him, "Well who on earth would I find, then? ;D ;D ;D

...Oh!! This is just classic!  Thank goodness we can all still laugh  ;D ;D ;D! I don't think it would be possible to find a bigger d!ck than our current Hs and the way they are behaving!
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Re: MLC script V
#16: March 31, 2014, 04:11:07 AM
I can't top the BD drivel ...mine were quite boring really... the usual "we've grown apart", "you deserve better than me, I create sh## everywhere I go" etc. 

But his excuse for not coming home all night the first time (when obviously with OW) is a classic.  "I ate some bad pizza, got really sick at work, everyone else had left for the night and then while being sick I dropped my cellphone down the toilet and it wouldn't work.  I had to sleep there."  :-\   What there were no other phones to use!!?  :o 

Then later, "I dried the phone out very slowly in the oven, it's working again now".   ::) ;D.

Do you think I was suspicious after this?  You bet ya!!  ;) :D

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Re: MLC script V
#17: March 31, 2014, 04:47:02 AM
My H had 1 really good one that sticks out..he came home from work smelling of booze. I told H you smell like beer he said I've been at work all night I don't know what it could be.  H actually gave me a kiss "thinking" I wouldn't smell it as he put it after I text one of his coworkers n she happen to ask 1st thing if H was sick cause he wasn't at work.   H finally said he was at the river all night drinking alone n got to drunk to drive home yet made it home 10 min earlier than his normal time  :o :o. Yea..that's when I knew there was someone else plus he
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Re: MLC script V
#18: June 13, 2014, 02:14:42 PM
Lately i got
 We ve been trying for 10 yrs
 Our r did not work out
 You should let go of the anger
 Don t be bitter
 You learn from the past ( to which i replied so i was your guinea pig)
 Are these familiar to any of you? He looked as if he was coming back and all of a sudden everything s changed? After all these words he came to see the kids and tried small talk I did not respond.
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Re: MLC script V
#19: June 13, 2014, 02:24:18 PM
Yes it does because yesterday I heard:
"it simply did not work out between the 2 of us"
"we looked like a good family from the outside only"
"maybe, maybe not" in response to me saying in times of difficulties, you turn to your spouse. Obviously, the "not" means that OW is a better option
"we may simply end up being just friends"
"yeah, sure I miss the kids, but not you"
"our communication was bad from the start" (initially, it was just recently)
and I could add a whole lot more.
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