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#60: September 22, 2013, 08:41:49 AM
My W starting sweating more. In fact always complaining of being hot lately.
Also had tremors which I put down to the AD's.

Accusing anyone who needs anything from them as manipulative.
Expressing regret at having children.
Spray tans
Tattoos
Extreme weight loss
Constantly out (mine phoned me this morning saying she was having a coffee over the park as she was coming down with something and she needed some peace & quiet even though her flat is empty as I have the kids. ::)

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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#61: September 22, 2013, 08:43:24 AM
58. Says "I deserve to be happy".

59. Constantly acts like it's all about "me, me, me".

60. Obsessed with the gym, working out, hiking, biking, and trying to prove to the world how young and in shape they are.

61. Wants all of the assets and wants to leave the LBS with all of the debts.

62. Lies about their age...and everything else!
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#62: September 22, 2013, 08:46:19 AM
63.  Left you because you are "too controlling" but is at the beck and call of the OP.

64.  Complains about the OP yet still caters to every whim
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#63: September 22, 2013, 08:46:39 AM
65. Insane desire to drop to the floor and show S10 how many pushups he can do!
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#64: September 22, 2013, 08:49:07 AM
My MLCer had many physical ailments, both real and I believe imagined, the year or so following BD.  I do think it is the stress of the inner turmoil.
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#65: September 22, 2013, 08:49:37 AM
Quote from: Serenity on September 22, 2013, 08:34:18 AM
Took me to look at a plane we might buy - even though we were broke!!! And was cross that I didn't show enough interest!!! :0/ He can't fly, by the way!

Now twitches a lot.

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I just LOVE that one, he can't fly anyway...who said MLC cannot have a funny side, so pathetically ridiculous at times! My H put up on FB a prayer
"Heavenly father, walk through my home and take away all my worries and illnesses.
Please watch over and heal my family and friends.
Bless my home, family and friends with peace, love and joy in Jesus name. Amen"
Now my H is the least religious person I know...what do you think this is about then????
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#66: September 22, 2013, 08:53:08 AM
61. About assets, this is so true. Give me the car and half our money ..  H demanded and demanded. He now will do anything to stop me getting my hands on any of his business assets.
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#67: September 22, 2013, 08:55:27 AM
PatienceGalore,

Religion is one of the 4 pillars of MLC. I'm guessing his FB prayer just shows you that he's got that "pillar" covered. As long as he's obsessing about his body, ready to quit his job, and has an OW, he's checked all 4 pillars off and we can give him an A+ for MLC:)

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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#68: September 22, 2013, 09:06:50 AM
I did not know about Religion being a pillar? he does not believe in God, so what is that, I don't get it?
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#69: September 22, 2013, 09:08:34 AM
Sorry feel bit thick here ... What are the four pillars if MLC?
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