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#60: May 01, 2017, 03:42:42 PM
Really, I'm really pleased to hear that you're health is good. At least you got a check up out of this scary moment and know you're doing just fine. How sweet your D is on her first date. I remember that feeling with my two Ds. It's bittersweet. Glad your H is participating in the experience.
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#61: May 01, 2017, 05:09:18 PM
RT, I agree with Milly.  I'll bet it made your daughter feel extra-special, too, to have both of her parents there for her "special" moment. 

It's during these times you probably just want to scream:  "WTF is wrong with you?  We could have life so perfect.  Wake up." 

Anyway, I am glad the test results came back good for you.  Getting older?  Who is he kidding??  You're never to old for anything until you don't wake up any more!!

Enjoy the experiences ... kids grow up so fast, it's too hard to imagine.  It's true when they say that time really does fly.
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#62: May 01, 2017, 06:56:30 PM
Glad you went to the Dr and at least got some piece of mind and everything is okay.

You are in the final stretch at work, and then you can really relax a bit :)
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#63: May 01, 2017, 07:47:51 PM
RT,

So glad you got a clean bill of health!

What a beautiful moment to cherish,  your D's first date!  I am happy your h was part of it as well,  I'm sure that made it even more special for d.
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#64: May 01, 2017, 10:41:33 PM
Great you got a clean bill of health RT, but I think your doctor is dreaming when he says you are older?  He's treating you like an 80 year old!

If we are fit we can do almost anything we like but just keep away from extreme sports ;D
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#65: May 02, 2017, 05:09:49 AM
Thanks All. The doc was actually saying that things you could get away with before you can't get away with now - like not fueling your body properly. He wasn't saying I was old just saying I have to take better care of myself - now that I'm older .... Basically saying that I needed to make some changes which is true. In particular, I need to increase my water consumption. So I'm on a quest to begin to drink lots of water again. But it was nice to be able to get back to exercising last night.
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#66: May 02, 2017, 05:46:26 AM
Ah, yes the "drink more water" diagnosis. I know that one well :) My D is really good at that and reminds me constantly.

Glad you are back on track and exercising again :)
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#67: May 02, 2017, 06:11:47 AM
good to hear you got an "all clear" !  Exercise to so important on so many levels!
The good fuel thing is right, I have noticed and made changes as I am aging..it really helps!!   

first little date for sweet D.....so it begins :):):)  mine are both married but I still remember the "fun"!! 

Just found out our S and DIL are expecting a girl in October !!!  Seems the "fun" never ends with kids!!

Sounding good Really!
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#68: May 02, 2017, 11:28:59 AM
Congrats 31! I new baby is always so fantastic!!!!!
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#69: May 02, 2017, 10:36:18 PM
Congrats 31!!
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"And when they ask you about me and you find yourself thinking back on all of our memories,
I hope you ache in regret as the truth hits you like a bullet and you find yourself replying: ""She loved me more than anyone else in the entire world and I tried to destroy her."  He failed by the way. 
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