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Our Community / Re: 17 Months in, The future is bright :-)
« Last post by Whyus on July 18, 2018, 11:51:15 PM »
So S20 is also home safe and Sound from his Holiday with his GF!!!  :D

Ka and I are travelling to the USofA in September. I have recieved an EMail from my friends in Texas that I can use his Bike for the Weekend, its a Yamaha Stratoliner 1950cc!! He also informed me that one of the best Bike rides in Amerika is not far away so we should ride there.
http://www.ridetexas.com/the-twisted-sisters
Should be a blast. Does anybody know of this route???
 
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Our Community / Re: Is He Going Through MLC?
« Last post by Puppy on July 18, 2018, 11:39:26 PM »
I guess being LBS is always not in the "win" side ........ if i am doing great, the MLC H thinks I am strong and have accepted him doing everything he wants......... if i am doing bad, the MLC H will do worst.

I have learnt not to ask any questions to him but he still does everything to be away from me ..... I am not sure if he is not comfortable to be next to me or he hates being next to me or he is just a teenager who comes back to his dorm if he feels wants it otherwise he will stay wandering out there.

This situation become so irritating ........ I feel I am no longer valuable to him and why i keep wanting to stand.

Any advises are always welcome, Everyone!
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Our Community / Re: Mic children
« Last post by Thunder on July 18, 2018, 11:26:54 PM »
Searching, please do fight for your kids.  Then don't need this, they need a sane parent.

Do you have a good lawyer?
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Our Community / Re: Helping Me in this MLC 3
« Last post by Thunder on July 18, 2018, 11:21:33 PM »
Helping,

Enjoy your time together.

I love that your W is wising up about helping your oldest son take responsibility for himself....and you are backing her on this.

It's a win, win for all of you.

 8)
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Our Community / Re: Mic children
« Last post by Velika on July 18, 2018, 11:20:33 PM »
MY former SIL has an ongoing MLC, also textbook. I feel it is vital that this become recognized as a mental health condition – even a "temporary" one — for the sake of LBS parents in this situation, who can clearly see something is horribly wrong with their unwell spouse but many times cannot convince courts, doctors, therapists, and others that something is wrong when it really would matter.

Based on my former SIL behavior pattern, I encourage dads not to just blindly accept a custody situation that is not in their favor, their children's favor, or – in the long run perhaps — the MLCer's favor. If your wife recovers, she will be glad you kept the kids from the OM and quite likely herself.



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Our Community / Re: Connected By Love
« Last post by Whyus on July 18, 2018, 11:20:23 PM »
First of all, happy anniversary moc.

Now to business!!! Moc, whatever you do is your decision but shes stilling talking to OM mate. IF she wants to work on your R then has to cut ALL CONTACT to OM, delete all numbers etc. He has to go! Simple as that or you dont stand a Chance.
Sorry for being so blunt but I think it more than just mho, its a fact. It can only work if he is completely out of the equasion.

Maybe this evening is a good opportunity to talk about it, what are you waiting for?

Sorry to hit you with a 2x4 but I meant all of the above in the kindest possible way for MOC! You dont deserve to have to share your Ws time with OM. Its all in or bye, bye babes.
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Our Community / Re: The Road Not Taken VIII
« Last post by Savoir Faire on July 18, 2018, 11:17:53 PM »
Hope your little one is enjoying her cast, they usually do.  It's us who stress out.

I'm glad your daughter looks happy and hope that one day she contacts you, when both of you are ready.  I haven't seen my daughter either and not a photograph for about three years.  I know I am not ready to face her either, after all the hurt.  She sided with her father at BD but xH doesn't see her much as he's too busy with ow and my  D would hate that -. not Daddy's little girl anymore.  I realize she's young and inexperienced in life's ups and downs and it will take her a while to see I wasn't the problem.  She may even know that now but is too proud to contact  me.

Things will be good for all of us one day.  I am so glad life for you is stepping up, we deserve nothing less after all we have been put through.
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Our Community / Re: Life is like a box of chocolates
« Last post by Nevertoomuch85 on July 18, 2018, 11:17:19 PM »
Sending positive thoughts to you Savior
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Our Community / Re: Still my turn!
« Last post by Milly on July 18, 2018, 11:13:24 PM »
Hope, I'm 'giddy' for you, too! Your H is definitely enjoying being around you. It's great to hear how you are acting with your H, appreciating him and saying so, this is a good lesson for me for the future with whomever my other half might be!
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Our Community / Re: Removing the Crepe
« Last post by Treasur on July 18, 2018, 11:12:27 PM »
Being put on a pedestal, is also being put in a cage.

This x 1000  :)
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