Problem occurs when they become stuck and start looping, and it becomes your 'set point'.
When anger, grief, pain become your normal, you have a problem. Like an indication light in your car that there is some difficulty with the engine.
Yes but get stuck and starting looping is not valid for depression caused by thyroid, PND or any other condition that does derive from feelings/thoughts. It is rooted in clear physical/body issues.
You don't want to cover up the light with a piece of duct tape. You want to find the cause, fix it and move on.
He believes that taking a pill is the piece of duct tape and is not looking at the causes.
Of course not but often therapists and doctors tell people what is the cause of their depression (thoughts, life style) and nothing changes. When people don't want to listen they don't listen. Or people cannot afford to do those changes.
Also, at a point, the thoughts/feelings had already caused a big imbalance in several body/brain areas so it is no longer possible to simply reverse the thoughts/feeling because further damage had been caused.
Sometimes one has to take the pill. Even if to just balance things to a point one can start functioning again. It happend with my cousin and it happened with me. But there is a big difference between taking a pill for a short period of time and take it forever/ages.
We have to take in consideration that most people simply cannot check out of their lives and go and live in a paradise. So, for some, the pill is what is going to keep them above water.
What is the reason/cause is it modern life? Or the stresses of the marriage (and yes, marriages can be stressful)? Or the job? How do you solve those? MLCers way?...
Yes, a predisposition for depression makes sense and is believed to exist. There is no single gene for a single cause/thing. It is always a group of genes/several genes. Like with all predisposition it requires a trigger.
Dr Daniel Amen says that being diagnosed with depression is like being diagnosed with chest pain. There are a multitude of potential reasons for the pain.
Yes but there is nothing new with it. At least around here doctors always (by always I mean in the latest decades) tried to know why someone is depressed/caused the depression. If no other health issues are present it usually is the lifestyle/the way people think.
Yet we keep having more and more depressed people even if doctors had been aware that there are several causes for depression and even what to do. Somehow it does not seem to work and depression levels just increase. Why?
And the same goes to MLC. It is often possible to see that someone is unwell, they even say they are depressed, took some med, tried to change their lifestyle but the crisis still hit them. And there was nothing one could do.
True, Ready2 but how do you reverse those? How do we change that and prevent the MLC from happening? You've had one yourself. I most likely also had one. Was there anything that could had stop it?
Probably, for me, a quieter lifestyle since BD but, well, BD and what come with it did not lead to a quieter life.
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)