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Interacting with Your MLCer Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#30: December 03, 2013, 02:02:42 PM
Should we buy, should we not, and if yes, what would be "suitable" ;)

For me, the answer is a definite NOT for my H, as he has been neither naughty nor nice, just nasty.

I can stil see him now, sitting on the sofa as i told him of our friends experience after her husband called out of the blue to say he wanted a divorce (MLC 100%), little did i know he was making notes, and thinking "note to self: when its my turn to go, must not screw up as this guy did, and pay support" :o

So, nothing on my list for H.  He will be miles away with OW in the sun, and far too busy having fun on their first Christmas together ::).  Imagine that shopping credit card bill :o.  Thats okay though as they are soulmates, and very much in luuurrrvve. 

What I wish for H is that he gets rotten drunk in front of OW and her friends and family, and all the truth spills out.  Merry Christmas H :-*

For those thinking of purchasing a gift for their MLer, may I suggest:

- A home streaks and tips kit for all their hair dye needs
- Large key chains, to hang on their tourist hoddie zipper, as my H does 8) :o ::)      He is in his 50s ::)
- Memory book with names and pictures of children and pets
- A subscription for Booboos husband, where someone reminds him daily of her shops closing time.

The list goes on, please add.

PS. I know that many of you are far kinder people than I am, so for those who are mlc gift giving, please add your ideas too.

To end this, I am thinking of a Christmas song that denotes our MLCers, or just a few, Dasher, Dancer, Blitzen, or maybe that is just my H ::)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC in your life
#31: December 03, 2013, 02:08:24 PM
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC in your life
#32: December 03, 2013, 02:11:44 PM
Nuts.
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC in your life
#33: December 03, 2013, 02:13:58 PM
nothing at all they deserve sh,,,,t  sorry not very festive of me i know
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#34: December 03, 2013, 03:52:02 PM
How about a swift kick in the groin?  I think I can accommodate that!   8)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#35: December 03, 2013, 04:01:08 PM
I thought about the memory book as H was texting 10 days ago asking about pictures of the boys...but then he never even came to visit them at all over the holiday. Maybe he wants the pictures to recall what they look like..

Then I thought that if I did that I would seem like a doormat, plus he'd then be able to snuggle up to OW and talk about our boys when I want her to have NOTHING to do with my sons. They want NOTHING to do with her!
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#36: December 03, 2013, 04:41:20 PM
Rock bottom. Wait, we can't buy them that...  ::) ::) ::)
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#37: December 03, 2013, 04:51:33 PM
Bag of cat crap tied up with a bow..  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#38: December 04, 2013, 03:34:40 AM
IN IT lol  ;D ;D ;D

sounds good though
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Re: Christmas Present Ideas for the MLC person in your life
#39: December 04, 2013, 04:18:25 AM
And I thought you were joking about the thread...!!  I bet I can come up with a few  ;)
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