[Rising Phoenix]

Yes, ow co worker, 16 yrs younger, never been married and no kids. Ex h is with her 24/7 as she now does his hobbies with him aswell xx

[Seahorse]

RP -
My H's ow does his hobbies with him as well.
I think that's a pretty normal part of integrating into their lives.
On the other hand, I am out doing new things that we've never done together.
Partly because it hurts to do things alone that we used to do together, but part of it GAL and exploring what I was unable to in the past.

My H posted photos of ow and our boat last summer.
Tore my heart a that was the boat that our family used to use at our lake house.
Just the same-ol for them though. 
Somehow they (MLCer) seems to believe that as long as they're doing it still, nothing changes...

Sea

[Kimber]

Yup, OW 15 years younger. 38, never married, no kids, does contract work for him. Not a looker either. In fact, when I met her about two years ago,  (always curious about what she looked like), I immediately sized her up as no threat and never gave her a second thought.

It was only when I checked the cell phone records, that I saw a massive volume of calls. Incidentally, something I had never done in 24 years. It was only after my son told me he was taking Facetime calls with her out on the deck after hours that I checked.

I can’t figure it out though. For nearly six months he has been up in our vacation house (8 hour drive). It seems like an emotional affair. He says they only talk about work and she has a boyfriend. I don’t know if he is living a fantasy life, having a mental break, they have agreed to wait until the SOs are out of the way- since he just lies (used to be honest to a fault), I am only left filling in the blanks.

[amazinglove]

when people say 'attaching' what does that mean?

[zartheit]

On threads, it most likely refers to people "subscribing" to a thread so that they are notified when new replies are posted. You can do this without publicly posting but replying subscribes you (by default, I believe) and is a nice way to let everyone know you are following along.

[UrsaMajor]

On threads, it most likely refers to people "subscribing" to a thread so that they are notified when new replies are posted. You can do this without publicly posting but replying subscribes you (by default, I believe) and is a nice way to let everyone know you are following along.

This is exactly correct. When you "attach" to a thread by replying, any new posts to that/those threads show up in the "New Replies to my posts" link.